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Turning Page

I’ve waited a hundred years
But I’d wait a million more for you
Nothing prepared me for
What the privilege of being yours would do
If I had only felt the warmth within your touch
If I had only seen how you smile when you blush
Or how you curl your lip when you concentrate enough
Well I would have known
What I was living for all along
What I’ve been living for
Your love is my turning page
Where only the sweetest words remain
Every kiss is a cursive line
Every touch is a redefining phrase
I surrender who I’ve been for who you are
For nothing makes me stronger than your fragile heart
If I had only felt how it feels to be yours
Well I would have known
What I’ve been living for all along
What I’ve been living for
Though we’re tethered to the story we must tell
When I saw you, well I knew we’d tell it well
With a whisper we will tame the vicious seas
Like a feather bringing kingdoms to their knees
Songwriters: Ryan Curtis O’neal


Sometimes you grow will you're right in the middle of the bullshit. You grow just enough to see how you need to get out of it. You grow just enough to let go… And once you do, the growth accelerates. All of a sudden, you have more peace, more money, free time to do things you've always wanted to do and more. Sometimes, the growth start way before the break up. It starts when you realize you really do deserve better. You aren't always defined by who you attract, but your are defined by who you choose to stay with after knowing you deserve better. Think about that. My personal page (where i follow people back) is @horaciopapi … if you enjoy reading my posts, consider checking out my books. My new book, I Am The Love Of My Life is available now. Ebooks are also available. My books are about self love, moving on from situationships and letting go. Click the link in my bio if you're interested . __________________________________ Facebook: Horacio Jones Snapchat: Horaciojones #dickwithstandards #photooftheday #knowyourworth #kcco #instagood #writersofig #poemoftheday #writersofinstagram #situationships #psychology #sociology #relationships #quoteoftheday #horaciojones #selflove #wordporn #inspiration #fuckboyology #datingwithapurpose #teamlove #authorsofinstagram #selflovemovement #youdeservebetter #losangeles #holland #situationship #iamtheloveofmylife #miami #datingwithanxiety #brokenvision

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Love who you love while you have them. That’s all you can do. Let them go when you must. If you know how to love, you’ll never run out. – Ann Brashares, My name is Memory

but none of it is supposed to make sense, for sometimes you break the things you love and sometimes the things you love break you. -r.m. drake

I often wondered why we ask questions like, “How do we make love last?” Like it’s something we can run out of…You love more. You love harder. You love yourself. You love others. And even if you lose your relationship, you just keep loving. The volume of love doesn’t depend on whether people stay or go. It depends on whether we keep saying “Yes” to love and keep the faucet on. -Mark Groves

Maybe we feel empty because we leave pieces of ourselves in everything we used to

“You have to listen to people when they tell you they’re not ready or don’t want to be in a relationship with you. They’re either going to hurt you or waste your time since they’ll be trying to force compatibility. Real love is much more confident and precise than that. If they wanted you, they wouldn’t be trying to push you away; pay attention and accept the choices presented to you.” – Dear Love Life Sylvester McNutt

We started off as strangers. Time led us to believe we knew eachother. It’s tragic how in the end we knew less about one another than we did before we met. -Dru.Anthony

Bon Iver – I Can’t Make You Love Me / Nick of Time

An act of courage and an act of surrender…this is how we fall in love…this is how lovers meet. Love always asks us to show up. It asks us to leap. And as we navigate through, we take turns leaping…and then surrendering…and then leaping again. We can't fall in love if only one person leaps…and we certainly can't fall in love if we don't surrender. We must ask our vulnerable selves to have courage…to step into a space and reveal our hearts, to lower the walls, to keep uncertainty from getting in the way. We must demand this from ourselves. Otherwise we'll always stand still. You see, we have so much we *can* fear. What if we leap and get rejected? What if the feelings we have aren't shared? What if…what if…what if? You're right. We might get hurt along the way. We might experience lows. But if we keep ourselves from leaping and surrendering for fear of rejection or looking foolish, we'll never meet our great love. So please know that your courage will be met one day if it hasn't already. And please know that when you surrender in that space with a beautiful person leaping with you, all the other times will not matter. And please know that as you navigate through the ebbs and flows of relationships so much of what will get you through the tough times will be your willingness to tap into your courage over and over and over again…and to trust that to shift away from being stuck it will come back to this: courage and a willingness to surrender. #mindfulmft

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If you ever have difficulty getting over me, then maybe you are not supposed to. @writehiswrongs

Oh, McSteamy…yes, yes, yes. Let's stick with the theme from the last couple of posts. Too often we keep ourselves from sharing our truth. We swallow our words. We let fear trick us out of telling a person we love them. We find excuses: "It's too soon." "They'll think I'm crazy." "What if they don't say it in return???" I know it's so scary to be vulnerable and not have certainty that your vulnerability will not only be received, but that it will be met. We want our act of vulnerability to be met with their act of surrender. We want to know that a person feels the same way. We want that security and that safety before moving forward. And it all make sense. But sometimes we just have to leap. Sometimes our truth is more important. Because honoring ourselves and the other person is what's most important. We tell a person we love them not to hear it in return…we tell a person we love them so that they know it. It's the purest, most beautiful form of expression. If you love someone…you tell them. Don't keep them from the words that they may need to hear…the words that may change their lives. Think about it. Imagine knowing how many people have wanted to tell you they love you but have just been too scared. Imagine if each person knew every time a person wanted to say it. This world…and our relationships…would just be better. So don't hold it back. Share yourself. Share your love. Let people know they are loved. It's what's this world needs. #mindfulmft

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Read it 😉👊🏼 I love these words from @bryantmcgill. They're exactly what each of us needs to hear and read over and over and over again. You see, we're constantly recovering. We are expected to love and to hurt, and to recover…and to love and hurt differently…and to recover again. Our love and our hurt should get wiser. With every experience we should learn and grow. We should identify lessons and the opportunity for healing. We need this cycle in order to get closer to our true selves. Let's stop cursing our hurt. It is a beautiful sign that healing is for the taking. Let that sink in. Every time we hurt, we need to remind ourselves that a form of recovery is on its way. I adore that line, "each tragedy is an announcement that some good will indeed come in time." So know that we are ALL going through it. We've been there before and we'll be there again. Maybe you're in recovery right now, maybe you're deep in the hurt, or maybe you're in a place of peace…just know that you're never just stuck in one part of the cycle. Something is coming. Something is always coming. So if you're in a good place…enjoy it, embrace it…and if you're not, learn and grow from it. The process is beautiful if you let it be. #mindfulmft

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It's easy to love someone when they're happy…when they're in a great mood and don't really need much. Isn't it interesting that people are more easily "lovable" when we don't have to work at it?! I find that fascinating. It's like we're off the hook…it's simple…not much is demanded of us. We might even internally declare "this is how it's supposed to be." …..which is lovely, except that life and love isn't just about the simple + happy moments. We all feel…and we feel A LOT. Yup…all of us. Some are better at recognizing and honoring it, but even if you internalize…you're still a feeler. But when we keep emotion inside we send the message to ourselves and others that we fear that if we share it we won't be loved…that love will be withdrawn. That we'll be criticized or rejected. We fear that any "negative" emotion is one that can't be loved and held. We need people that can hold any and all emotion. We need people who make that safe. We need people who stand up and say…"you can't scare me away". All of us need to know that it's safe to be ourselves…that it's safe to not only have any emotion, but to share it. Sure, it's easy to love people who are happy and in a good place, but we need to love people who are feeling the range of emotions as well. It's the scary stuff that really needs love….support…safety. We all need to work at this. We all need to know that we are loved no matter what it is that we're feeling. So set out to share, and set out to create safety for others. Don't shy away from the scarier emotions. Turn towards. Ask. Love. Be present. #mindfulmft

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Un-thinkable (I’m Ready) Alicia Keys

Moment of honesty

Someones gotta take the lead tonight
Who’s it gonna be?
I’m gonna sit right here
And tell you all that comes to me
If you have something to say
You should say it right now

You give me a feeling that I never felt before
And I deserve it, I think I deserve it
Its becoming something that’s impossible to ignore
And I can’t take it
I was wondering maybe
Could I make you my baby
If we do the unthinkable would it make us look crazy
If you ask me I’m ready
If you ask me I’m ready

I know you said to me
“This is exactly how it should feel when its meant to be”
Time is only wasting so why wait for eventually
If we gonna do something ’bout it
We should do it right now
(We should do it right now)

You give me a feeling that I never felt before
And I deserve it, I know I deserve it
Its becoming something that’s impossible to ignore
It is what we make it
I was wondering maybe
Could I make you my baby
If we do the unthinkable would it make us look crazy
Or would it be so beautiful either way I’m sayin’
If you ask me I’m ready
If you ask me I’m ready

Why give up before we try
Feel the lows before the highs
Clip our wings before we fly away (fly away)
I can’t say I came prepared
I’m suspended in the air
Won’t you come be in the sky with me

I was wondering maybe
Could I make you my baby
If we do the unthinkable would it make us look crazy
Or would it be so beautiful either way I’m sayin’
If you ask me I’m ready
If you ask me I’m ready
If you ask me I’m ready
If you ask me I’m ready

Every relationship gets boring and it will get boring after you’ve been together for years. It’s always fun in the beginning. It’s always exciting when you’re getting to know each other. It’s always thrilling to chase one another. Eventually, it gets hard. Eventually, it becomes difficult. Eventually, it drains you. That’s when people tend to quit and go look for someone else because “the spark is gone” and they want to feel wanted and admired and loved again. But listen, that’s not how it’s supposed to be. No, that’s not how it works. It doesn’t have to be that way. Even when it does get boring, that’s when you’re supposed to remember why you’re with that person in the first place and it’s never too late to find that happiness that you both once found together because the truth is, it’s always been there and it never left. Even when it feels like feelings are fading, that’s when you’re supposed to know how much this person means to you and what losing them would be like because being able to love someone even when they’re being hard to love shows that your feelings never left. Even when it feels like you’re done, that’s when you’re supposed to realize that no matter who you’re with, it’s always going to get “boring” so you might as well be with someone who’s willing to love you unconditionally and never give up on you. – Teddy Nguyen

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